Open Question: Do you think this woman likes me?

So they are twin sisters, they asked me to take them off-campus to watch a movie (I volunteered, two girls taking a bus at night, not chilly). After that we watched anime at their place, her sister went to bed, she and I had some deep conversation then we went outside to play some basketball til 1am... On Saturday, she texted me to ask me out to dinner, but I didn't cause I needed to study. On Sunday, we studied together after church, I took her to In-N-Out and she seemed pretty glad. We had dinner and saw her sister, had some great conversation. Walked her back to her place and said good-bye. Seemed like she didn't want to part. Then Monday she started to text more often. She made time to look me although I told her that I wouldn't stay at the library for too long for I had a class in an hour, and she said she would still arrive and walked every the way from Gilman to Geisel Libaray (UCSD folks you'd know). And today she volunteered to study with me... Do you think she likes me? Thanks.

10 Mar 2010, 4:10 am | click here to view more

Open Question: can I share a bed with my step mom?

she is nice to me, my dad is gone alot, hes a truck driver. sumtimes she asks me to snooze in her bed with her because she is alone and say she needs someone to hold on to and touch. i dont want her to feel alone but sumtimes i feel weird being in bed with her, is this right? she does things once that i dont know about or understand.

10 Mar 2010, 4:07 am | click here to view more

Open Question: How much do you think a removalist will cost from Brisbane to Melbourne?

I dont have much. I am a single person with some stuff. Fridge, Lounge, queen bed, 5 set dining. that is about pretty much what i got. do anyone know how much for interstate removals?

10 Mar 2010, 4:07 am | click here to view more

Open Question: So would you say she likes me?

So they are twin sisters, they asked me to take them off-campus to watch a movie (I volunteered, two girls taking a bus at night, not chilly). After that we watched anime at their place, her sister went to bed, she and I had some deep conversation then we went outside to play some basketball til 1am... On Saturday, she texted me to ask me out to dinner, but I didn't cause I needed to study. On Sunday, we studied together after church, I took her to In-N-Out and she seemed pretty glad. We had dinner and saw her sister, had some great conversation. Walked her back to her place and said good-bye. Seemed like she didn't want to part. Then Monday she started to text more often. She made time to look me although I told her that I wouldn't stay at the library for too long for I had a class in an hour, and she said she would still arrive and walked every the way from Gilman to Geisel Libaray (UCSD folks you'd know). And today she volunteered to study with me... Do you think she likes me? Thanks.

10 Mar 2010, 4:02 am | click here to view more

Open Question: 8 week old baby - goes to bed at 7, sleeps through til about 11/11:30 when we feed him again then sleeps?

through til about 3...but he then wakes up at 5/5:30. He can't possibly be hungry as he usually takes between 5-7oz at the 3am feed!! I offered him water which he took but then I felt so bad I gave him a boob! If he takes the water does that mean he's dehydrated or hungry???? I'm not sure...I tend to be so sleepy I just assume he's hungry!!

10 Mar 2010, 4:01 am | click here to view more

Open Question: Had sex with her best friend. Should I breakup with my girlfriend?

The other night, I invited my girlfriend's best pal to my home because she needed help with her research paper. After a few hours, we decided to sit on my sofa and watch a movie. She had her blonde, voluminous hair on my shoulder, so I started twirling and playing with it. Apparently, my girlfriend's best pal decided that this was some type of signal to kiss, and she kissed me. We kissed for a few minutes and I told her things I shouldn't have (ex. I want to go down on you and taste your juices, you're making me difficult, etc.). Anyway, my girlfriend called right when we were about to escalate things and her best pal left (promising to keep things hush hush). That night, I know that I had made a mistake and decided to not meet with my gf's best pal again. But then, yesterday morning, my girlfriend's best pal came over because she had left her purse in my bathroom. She went to my bathroom, picked up her purse, then she started leading me on (ex. tapping on my chest, playing with my belt, etc.). She then started to kiss my neck and I didn't want to be rude... so I kissed her back. We had sex and everything. I find her attractive and want to start seeing my gf's best pal (she is also better in bed, lol). Do I breakup with my girlfriend? Or should I continue to look her until she finds out? I had sex with two different girls today, so I need to know your opinions, lol.

10 Mar 2010, 4:00 am | click here to view more

Open Question: sign of a more serious problem?

Its about 4 in the morning where I am. My dog, a 4-year-old, male, Lhasa Apso/Poodle Mix named Sammy and I went to snooze about four hours ago. I awoke about a half an hour ago to him walking around on my bed, which is pretty normal. I just put new sheets/comforter on my bed tonight, and he just got his hair clip/nails trimmed earlier today, so it didn't bother me at first that he seemed to be walking rather clumsily. When he came up to my front side I noticed he was using every leg twice, almost as if he was trying to be sure there would be something there before he put weight down. I scooped him up thinking he was just trying to receive closer to me and was unsure of trying to navigate in the dark... but he immediately got back up and kept his odd walking pattern. I few seconds later, I heard a noisy thunk as he hit the floor, but my room is a little messy, so I thought he probably just landed on something. The odd, uneven walking sounds continued though as he walked back and forth across my room several times, now accompanied with really heavy panting. Finally, I turned the light on and called to him, and he walked out from below my bed, and couldn't seem to hold still, or control his hind legs. they were falling a little bit to one side, then the other, and he just wouldn't cease moving. My immediate thoughts went to his safety; wondering if he was having a seizure (but I've had a dog with epilepsy, and that's not what this looked like at every) or some other type of neurological problem. I picked him up and started to take him upstairs to receive him some water, and the whole time I was holding him he was whining a little bit. When I set him back down once we were upstairs, he walked away from me immediately, but normally. He disappeared into another room, came back in, looked at me, and disappeared again, so I followed him, and watched him vomit up some dog food, which every appeared pretty normal, and then he seemed perfectly fine. I put down some water for him while I cleaned up his mess, and he drank a little bit, and is now acting just fine. I brought him back downstairs, and he's curled up asleep on my bed again. Has anyone else had this experience? He's thrown up before, but never with the falling over/shaking/panting things involved. I thought at first he was trying to receive my attention so that he wouldn't toss up in here, since I read somewhere that dogs don't like to receive the place they snooze dirty, but he's thrown up in here before without thinking twice about it. I plan on calling my vet in the morning to look if she has any ideas, but since he's acting fine now, I don't look any reason in calling the emergency vet. Just curious to look if anyone else has heard of anything like this. He almost gave me a heart attack. Any information would be welcome.

10 Mar 2010, 3:57 am | click here to view more

Open Question: Did this girl like me?

I like this girl but she seems into older guys and we dont even go to school together. we r both 16. last year we would look eachother about 1 every few months but everytime i saw her I felt really glad. I didnt know If she liked me or not so i didnt ask her out. She used to share ur stuff to me and only me, ask me for my number and kept stealing my mobile, she kept trying to avoid me on some occassions but when we were every together she would make fun of me, when I slept over (im me and my brothers are friends with her brother) She would let me snooze on her bed. Did she like me then? Is there any way i could receive her to like me again?

10 Mar 2010, 3:55 am | click here to view more

Open Question: I got a serious growing issue with my Mum?

I find it really difficult to ignore what she says because they are the worst of things, i don't hear but the lies can receive to me, maybe even subconsciously. My Mum said i am not going to be a personal trainer im going fail in life not move to USA not have a glad marriage and not going to make a workout video.. and she knows these are my main biggest dreams and she even said my wife is going to think im a slob because i didn't make my bed :O what a LOSER Why would she be like this? she NEVER listens when i tell her to cease she just has an bad tongue that's waiting to spit out poison and says what whatever she wants to say and doesn't have any respect to keep her mouth close when i tell her i have had enough, my Uncles x wife slapped her soo difficult once because my Mum told her anybody would know shes a dirty lady if they saw her bathroom! i told her today that shes bad! i don't even drink or go out and do bad things im christian and she always picks on me and puts me down for everything, every i do is mind my possess Business adore and help people and i would be so much better at life if she is the source of every my problems and insecurities. When i move to USA i actually never want to look her again and i told her this because she is the only one trying to put every the lies in my head to poison me against my dream. Is she just jealous that i have a great future ahead of me and she never achieved much? She does alot for me but only for her possess self gratification and when i say shes wrong she hides behind the bible! or doesn't hear at every! she thinks its ok to smash my stuff around because jesus did when he was mad smashing stuff in the temple. I told her shes not Jesus! She's got noFriendss because she finds fault in everyone and she only likes Animals, every she does is complain to her Mum and uncle about people and shes always stressed out chewing her fingernails ETC, i really do no like her one bit, as soon as i receive in the car with her in the morning she complains to me about everything and ask's me the same question 3 times in a row. Im sure you receive the picture of what she is like. She is like the devils puppet to bring me down. This problem cannot be fixed she has been like this for years and has never stopped doing one thing i told her too do, Now i am 18 i am old enough to realise people like her exist and will not play a role in my life. I cant talk to her tho this is an unfixable peoblem i tried for 3 years.

10 Mar 2010, 3:54 am | click here to view more

Open Question: Where does the bond between best friends end and Guy Girl begin?

So my best pal and I are closer then I ever though we could be possible.. (Both 21) I mean we basically do everything together like we're like brother and sister.. So recently her lease ended and her boy pal wanted her to move in and look if it would workout and it didn't so she decided to find a place of her possess (She still going out with dude).. So she stayed with me for the past four day until she was able to move in to her apartment.. She ended up telling dude that she was staying with me and he flipped out.. If I were him I would be hella pissed that my girl pal is staying with another dude, but at the same time she's my best pal so I don't really care what he thinks.. Lol I just feel hella gulity.. Thing is I only have one bed in my room so let her take it and I tried to snooze on the floor.. She said I was on the floor she was too.. So we ended up sleeping in the same bed.. Is it that big a deal??

10 Mar 2010, 3:54 am | click here to view more

Open Question: Who can advice me on below mentioned question.?

I am a 26 year old man and am silent interested in joining gym to tone and keep my body fit. However I have a query, I had a slip disc( or a minor disc protrusion as termed by the doc) about 2 1/2 years ago due to which I was advised bed relax and it took around a month to heal. Now I am completely perfect and always practice good weight lifting techniques and I was doing regular exercises to strengthen by lower back for the past 2 1/2 years. I just need your help that can I exercise in a gym like a normal person? Are Cardio and strengthing exercises okay for me and can i do every the weight training exercises practiced in a gym like lifting weights upto 5-10 kgs. Please advice. Regards, Sohan

10 Mar 2010, 3:52 am | click here to view more

Open Question: How should I break up with my girlfriend?

The other night, I invited my girlfriend's best pal to my home because she needed help with her research paper. After a few hours, we decided to sit on my sofa and watch a movie. She had her blonde, volumous hair on my shoulder, so I started twirling and playing with it. Apparently, my girlfriend's best pal decided that this was some type of signal to kiss, and she kissed me. We kissed for a few minutes and I told her things I shouldn't have (ex. I want to go down on you and taste your juices, you're making me difficult, etc.). Anyway, my girlfriend called right when we were about to exclate things and her best pal left (promising to keep things hush hush). That night, I know that I had made a mistake and decided to not meet with my gf's best pal again. But then, yesturday morning, my girlfriend's best pal came over because she had left her purse in my bathroom. She went to my bathroom, picked up her purse, then she started leading me on (ex. tapping on my chest, playing with my belt, etc.). She then started to kiss my neck and I didn't want to be rude... so I kissed her back. We had sex and everything. I find her attractive and want to start seeing my gf's best pal (she is also better in bed, lol). How do I let my girlfriend know that I want to break up?

10 Mar 2010, 3:44 am | click here to view more

Open Question: when will i get over my ex girlfriend?

I could go on for hours telling of every the cruel, humiliating, hurtful, and unforgettable thing she has done to me. Please give me the best advice possible because i am sleepy of feeling this pain for over eight months now and i want it gone. sick try to tell the story without to much detail. She was my first EVERYTHING. Never had a girlfriend before her. We fell in adore. She made promises. We planned our lives together. Our relationship was an amazing thing for the year and a half that we were together. Her and i were best friends which made it even more special. The last month of our relationship was stressful because of work and school. we didnt spend much time with each other. But i promised that things would receive better. One day we got into an argument. And she decided to end our relationship. I knew this girl like the back of my hand. I knew that if i would leave her alone she would eventually arrive back to talk and fix it. I went a few days without talking to her and i got worried. So i confronted her. She says she just needs more time. I give it to her. After two weeks i go into the freak out stage. I begged DID EVERYTHING i could too receive her back. It didnt work. She needed more time. Two months arrive along. I would lay in bed crying over it each night but knowing in my mind that it couldnt just be over like that. I got a text message from a pal saying"so how do u feel about your ex's new boyfriend?" During this time of leaving her alone i had a gut feeling that something was going on. But i chose to ignore it because i thought she was better. as a matter a fact i would ask her if she was talking to anyone else and she would receive upset and defensive. I went to her home at two in the morning and asked to talk to her and she said okay. "what r u hiding from me?" i said. I had to tug it every out of her but to make a long story short she had another guy the whole time. It was a buddy of mine. My girlfriend was good friends with him. They started "hanging out" and the day we broke up she banged him and started dating him. So it should be easy to blow her off right? no the story continues... i blocked her out of my life NO CONTACT. For about a month. I started doing better! just living life. I guess she saw this and she started calling. little by little. more and more every night. things seemed to receive normal. then when i would ask about our relationship she would reject me. she would make me remember good times and bring me to tears. crying to her again. begging. this happened about six different times. And after being rejected i would always say "ok, its over, i need to move on" but she would always find a way to bring me back to that point. But i did eventually cease .it stopped when i ended up fighting her boyfriend at a soccer game. She had told me that day that she wanted to talk about "us" but she would do it after she was done with her soccer game.. i showed up that night waiting for her and there was her boyfriend. there they were holding hands and kissing. i walked up and punched him and it was a battle. i won;) that night was when i received closure.. she told me that she no longer wanted to talk and that she never wanted to look me again. she told me that she was never planning on getting back together. that she didnt mean to give the wrong impression. then she told me that she was in adore with him. Thats when i was officially done..she said the most hurtful things. I tried to date other girls at school. But it seemed as if i were off limits because i was her boyfriend.(she was a popular girl) she would make comments to her friends about me when i would walk into class thinking that i didnt hear. example: "wow he looks so good today" "im so stupid for leaving him". she would talk about our sexual past with her friends. but she unhappy good things! u kinda receive what she was doing? i do not. The whole time i have not been with her i have had this empty lonely feeling. i dont feel like myself. and memories of her make a hole in my stomach and a knife in my heart. I finally decided to move far away. to Missouri. Word spread out the last month. Everyone said they would miss me blah blah. But she didnt talk to me. It was my last day. i was spending it at a friends home. then i got a phone call from her, she said that she had something for me and she wanted to hang out so i accepted. she picked me up and we went to an old hangout spot of ours. she made a cd of our favorite songs. and with her she had a folder of every the adore letters and cute things/pictures that we had. she gave me a letter and told me to read it alone. She had to go to work, she said shed call that night. I read the letter. and it was filled with the most beautiful heartwarming and amazing things. She wrote that she had been thinking and that shes going to miss me so much "it feels like my other half is leaving"" im so sorry" "now i wish that things would work" she said everything that i wanted to hear."i will always adore you and we

10 Mar 2010, 3:41 am | click here to view more

Open Question: i am trying so hard to go to sleep and i can't why not?

i was soooooo sleepy until i actually went to bed now im stuck staring at the ceiling and can't go to sleep

10 Mar 2010, 3:41 am | click here to view more

Open Question: Where do I get complete video of Swamy Nityanada sex scandal..?

Recently Swamy caught on camera being on bed with girls.

10 Mar 2010, 3:39 am | click here to view more

Open Question: 8 week old waking up every 3-4hours during night still but wont feed?

my son is just over 8 week old and hes been sleeping for about 8pm and wakes at 11pm for a feed which is always a long feed and the we go to bed. he then wakes between 2-3am for what used to be a feed but last few days hes been feeding just afew mins then sicking it every back up and going back to snooze. then he wake between 6-7am and doesnt even want a feed just a nappy change and goes back to snooze till about 8am. how can i receive him to just stay asleep its clear he doesnt want the milk? thanks

10 Mar 2010, 3:38 am | click here to view more

Open Question: what would you think if you found a toenail clipping in your bed with a nail polish color youve never worn?

i was getting into bed this evening and found a toenail clipping that looks like it snapped off rather than was clip off and there was nail polish on it a color that i have never worn in my life.. what would you think? please keep in mind that i am married and obviously share my bed with my husband.. is it the obvious? even though he denys it? we have no kids. he doesnt wear socks to bed. and i work as a bartender very tardy into the night. sounds pretty self explainatory to me unfortunately..

10 Mar 2010, 3:35 am | click here to view more

Open Question: I miss my dreams D: what should i do?

Ok so every since i was 9 i have been having dreams where i would go to this other world. I would have them once a week. I knew every ones names and actually looked forward to sleeping, i would go to bed hoping to have that one dream. It is never the same theres always something new but its the same places and the same creatures, same people. it every feels so real, i can actually remember one night in my dream i fell and scraped my knee, the next day i had a bruise... i know it sound crazy so i wont even ask you to believe that. In my dreams i can remember people talking about someone trying to hurt me and andrew is always protecting me and telling me when i need to go home. It has been a month and i still haven't had that dream, he told me this was the last time i could go to that place, it was too dangerous and that "he" would find me in his world and the perpous of me being here on ....earth? would be pointless and he started blaming himself for being greedy and wanting me back in his world. i don't know who "he" is but in my dream andrew is a angel and there are others, it's a very magical place. I know it every sounds to weird so i like wont ask anyone i know lol but what do you think that means D: im actually crying because i don't think im going to have that dream again. This couldn't somehow be real could it :S ??

10 Mar 2010, 3:33 am | click here to view more

Open Question: Do you fear being at home alone all by yourself & what will you do if you are down stairs & you start hearing?

All kinds of creaking noises and this feeling of fear races through your body every time you hear the noise,I am at home alone lots of times,my mom and brother will go over to her home(cause the next day one of them might have a doctor's appointment and the next day they both will arrive back) and my dad will sometimes leave for work at night and comes back home at about 5 something in the morning. the home has 2 bathrooms 3 bed rooms it has 5 closets in every 25 windows in every 1 laundry room

10 Mar 2010, 3:25 am | click here to view more

Open Question: what time do you go to bed and wake up?

just wonderingg (:

10 Mar 2010, 3:24 am | click here to view more

Open Question: Is an addict unable to see themselves going downhill?

I am watching someone I know spend everything he has on morphine, he has gone through his savings, the money in his wallet, and is selling and pawning his possessions. He spends days laying in bed, sometimes cannot stand without swaying. He doesn't bathe or leave his apartment unless to receive money or more drugs. When he is out trying to receive money, his face is covered in perspiration and sometimes his legs tremble. He doesn't eat much and has lost weight. Last month he went several days without water, even though a case of bottled water was about six feet from the bed where he was laying. I only saw him on the computer webcam first, and he looked bad, looked dehydrated. He said he couldn't receive up to receive the water, so I went to help him. When I got there it was very bad, containers of vomit and urine, rotting food, he was physically unclean. He asked me to bring him food every day, but usually he does not eat, and I toss it out the next day when I arrive. He is a grown man, and he will not go to a hospital. He has no health problems except those he is causing by this drug use. He was very bad addict for many years, until three years ago when he became healthier and worked and saved money, now he is back to this and his money is gone. I am watching it happen and it looks very bad to me. But for him it's as if he can't tell there is anything wrong, he only wants to receive more drugs. Is there anything I can do to help him? Is it possible for him to cease on his possess? Why does he not seem to care about his health? Is it possible that someone in his position is just blind to what is so clear to an outside observer?

10 Mar 2010, 3:23 am | click here to view more

Open Question: Does anyone know the name the song/artist of the song played @ start of Melrose place last night?

It was a new episode ("Oriole": was the title of the EP) & the tune was played at the very beginning when Riley woke up looking for Jonah & Jonah ws in bed with Ella: the vocals were by a female artist. i liked the tune so help? please any1?

10 Mar 2010, 3:21 am | click here to view more

Open Question: My one year old is agressive hits and doesn't go to bed when we want him in bed, And always chucks a wobbly !?

My 13 month old son hit's and is agressive towards everything, He doesn't take no for an answer and wont go to bed when we want him to, We live in a tiny 1 bedroom unit and it is difficult to let him sob it out, Any advice would help alot, My only child do not want no more ! I have put him to bed, He has had his nappy changed, And has his bottle in there what else can i do ? I went in there to check on him and he starts to grin and giggle.

10 Mar 2010, 3:19 am | click here to view more

Open Question: GUYS this is adult question for you!?

In the past you were nice of premiscuius you have had 3,4 have done everything by this women would you ever consider dating or even to receive married with a lady who hasnt had more then 2 partners and she isnt willing to do every the :nasty: things , she is freaky in bed and a lot of things go but not everything like anal sex and swolowing? Thanks with 3 and 4 I mean <<

10 Mar 2010, 3:15 am | click here to view more

Open Question: I dropped my MacBook?

I don't know how, but I fell asleep during my project and I found my Macbook placed like a meter away from my bed, closed. How badly will it be damaged. The height from my bed to the floor is like a less than a meter. It works fine though. Same as always.

10 Mar 2010, 3:08 am | click here to view more

Open Question: how to seat over floating water ( in River )?

i hear about that there are some peoples they can easilly seat over the river bed and travel, it is possible by Yoga? and if yes then what type of Yoga required. This found in Naga Sadhus community in India.

10 Mar 2010, 3:05 am | click here to view more

Open Question: How to get a toddler to behave correctly?

Hi everyone, I just had a few questions I would like to ask. My brother-in-law and sister-in-law have a son that is almost 2 years old. My fiance and I have a son that is 3 months old. My nephew behaves very badly. Some examples of things he does are: throws food when he is eating, throws tantrums in stores, hits people (including our 3 month old son), breaks things, sleeps in his parents bed, hits animals, and does not share. He is very spoiled, and jealous. He does not like when grandma and grandpa hold our son. He can be very cute and silly but overall he is a very rotten child. It drives me absolutely insane how he acts. I feel like I can not say anything because he is my fiance's brothers son so he is not technically my nephew. Like I said he is almost 2 and he is not talking and he is not even close to being potty trained. His parents do not spend a lot of time working with him on these things, and in my opinion really don't know how to be a parent. Everytime their son does something he obviously should not, like toss food at people, they giggle it off and think it is cute. While I am cringing inside because I cannot stand behavior like that. I believe it is a parents job to tutor their kids how to be polite and well behvaved. I am 5 years younger than his parents and not to "toot my possess horn" but I feel like I know more than they do about parenting. My fiances parents (which are also my fiance's brothers parents) think that they do not know how to be parents and just had a child for "show". So I am starting to receive very irritated and nervous that his behavior will rub off on my son eventually. I will NEVER let my son act the way that he does. I have tried to talk to my sister-in-law but she just blows it off. I can not stress enough how important it is to me that my son is very well behaved. I know that kids are not perfect and can misbehave, but I truly believe that the way a child acts every depends on the parenting they recieve. My son is only 3 months old and I do not spoil him at every, I have never spoiled him. So what are some tips that you have to make sure my son does not act this way? What where your parenting styles to make sure your kids where well behaved? Also I would like to know if you did have to deal with kids acting up like that what where your ways to deal with it? Thanks ahead of time! No rude comments please!

10 Mar 2010, 3:02 am | click here to view more

Open Question: Where can I take my mum for Mother's Day?

I'm 12 years old, so obviously I've never taken her out, just breakfast in bed. (by breakfast, I mean toast, cereal and a cup of tea!) I have a maximum of £50 and I live in Cardiff. I would like to take her boyfriend and my little sister. Could I book somewhere? I really want to take her out!!! Please remember I have a maximum of £50 and I live in Cardiff. Thanks xB

10 Mar 2010, 3:02 am | click here to view more

Open Question: I am gay and am falling for my straight friend?

I met my current roommate last year in a class. We became quick friends. He's from outside the US, and is only here for school. Ever since the beginning, we knew we had some sort of chemistry. He even pointed out (something I never noticed) that the reason why he thought I was gay was because he felt we had sexual tension towards one another. I never noticed this, and at that point, I only felt friendship towards him. Then, we began to hang out almost every night, where we'd talk about every part of our life to one another. We also liked to discuss philosophy and politics. While there were many issues on which we differed, most of what we believed were the same. Once, we fell asleep in bed together (nothing happened) after we had been drinking. We were completely sober when this happened, but it was so early in the morning, that we both decided I should just stay over. The week after that, he was completely awkward. Due to this, we canceled our plan to go camping later that week (OK, I had planned on going by myself, and when he heard this, he decided to tag along, saying that I did not know how to take care of myself in the woods). A week later, he came around, and we were back to normal. We even began to give each other back rubs, and on more than one occasion, we'd end up cuddling on his bed. We decided to become roommates, and throughout this ordeal, we found ourselves getting closer. There were times when we'd literally finish one another's sentences. We also did not divide our stuff for the new place, but bought stuff together. The last person I lived with was my ex, and even we did not do this. every this time, he always said he was straight. He always talked about girls, but he would always end up cuddling with me. We also joke and act like we're a couple. There have been times when people (friends and random strangers on the road) would remark that we are a cute couple. We would always giggle it off. He's also begun to tell me that he's still trying to figure himself out. That he's confused. But he never tells me what he's confused about. Lately, he's become rather distant. Perhaps this is my fault. A week ago, I woke him up asking him what he wants for breakfast. He seems to remember me asking him to "think about it" and that I was trying to tug his blanket off. I was tugging his blanket on him to cover his feet! He's decided that we're too couply (putting most of the blame on me), and asked me to be less affectionate. As much as it breaks my heart, I've complied. He apologized, however, for freaking out about that morning when I woke him up. I want to talk to him more than just the, "Hi, how are you?" but he doesn't seem to want to. We used to hug each other good-night, but now he just nice of ignores me. I don't know what to do. I'm just... I don't know what to do. Do I tell him I adore him? He says he's straight--what if I lose a pal? I still have to live with him, and I don't know if I can handle seeing him every day if this were to go sour. Just a few minutes ago, I confronted him on why he has been rather distant lately. Me- Did I do something? I feel like you’re shutting me out. Him- I’m just trying to back away from being so lovey-dovey. Me- Dude, if you think I’m hitting on you or something, you’re wrong. Him- I know. I’m just backing off. You’re not being close out. At that point, I walked away, and he started yelling. I couldn’t understand what was being said, as I just walked away and closed my door. I heard him curse, so I opened my door and went back. Him- Your friends are different from mine. For one, I’ m straight. The way you treat your friends is not how I treat my friends. I tried to meet you halfway, but that is not who I am. I smiled, and began walking away. Him- You’re not being close out. We’re still friends. I’m not shutting you out. You can still talk to me about anything. How can I talk to you about anything, if you act like you don’t want to hear?

10 Mar 2010, 2:54 am | click here to view more

Open Question: WHAT TIME WILL I GO TO BED?

10 Mar 2010, 2:44 am | click here to view more

Open Question: Do you need FIFA World Cup 2010 Accommodation & Transport?

Hi, I have 2 rooms available at my guest home. these rooms each have the following: shower/toilet/basin airconditioner ceiling fan double bed satellite tv lock-up safe 1 room has a view & access to the garden & swimming pool while the other has a restricted view of the garden. Common facilities: Spa bath facility Barbecue Facility 46" HD Sony Bravia with Satellite TV connected to lastest Polk/Onkyo Home Entertainment Theatre Full continental breakfast included. Lunch/Supper by pre-arrangement. Premises is located in a safe & upmarket neighbourhood. 24-hour armed armed security & reaction services (not that its ever been needed or used) Transport is available in & around Johannesburg. Further trios are negotiable on request. Contact me for further details.

10 Mar 2010, 2:43 am | click here to view more

Open Question: 18 month old daughter wont stop eatting?

my 18 month old daughter has been knocking back the food pretty much non cease for last week or so, she will toss a tantrum if she sees other people with food and she cant have it. She had the sickness bug for just over a week and hardly ate and lost abit of weight, so at first i thought now she was making up for the week she didn't eat, before every this she have a big breakfast of maybe 2 slices of toast or weatabix, then a mid morning snack maybe some fruit in the afternoon and dinner and a yogurt but now she will have 2 eggs, a slice of toast a bowl of raisins grapes, 2 bananas a tiny bowl of soup more grapes dinner and yogurt plus 5 Oz's of milk before bed. If i say no she screams at me for more but adventurally gives up and plays, i have left grapes on the table for her to snack on if she is really hungry. Do you think its just a growth spurt?

10 Mar 2010, 2:41 am | click here to view more

Open Question: iam looking for bumpbed?

iam getting kid looking for free bunk bed set

10 Mar 2010, 2:33 am | click here to view more

Open Question: 15 and my hairs falling out!?

hi im 15 and about a year ago my hair was thick and full, now its falling out slowly! since lat year ive been on a diet and lost a lot of weighT(cos i was fat). im 170 cm tall and 53 kg. Do you think my diet has anything to do with it? This is what i eat daily... Breakfast(6:40 am) 2 multigrain weetbix with no fat high calcium milk,1 slice of multigrain toast with butter and v8 juice. Reecess(11:35 am ) 1 Banana, 1 Nectarine, 1 tub of low fat high calcium yogurt. Lunch(1:35 pm) Sandwich with multigrain bread, 3 slices of low fat ham or turkey, lettuce and slice of cheese. After school snack: 1 tub of low fat yogurt, with clip up banana, 1 nectarine and glass of milk. Dinner: Either BIG dish of pasta with bolignase sauce, OR chicken/ meat with salad and vegetables. Before bed: Protein Shake. I candider this to be a LifeStyle choice not a diet as it is alot of food. is this contributing to my hair loss? if so what should i eat or take to make it every nice and thick again? thankyouuu btw, i wash my hair every night with shampoo and conditioner! and have eggs about twice a week

10 Mar 2010, 2:32 am | click here to view more

Open Question: Why do people whine so much when you stab them?

okay 1st of every after typing in the title to this question yahoo suggested that they may already have the answer im looking for and they tried to redirect me to the question, "Hannah Montana or iCarly" now that that's out of the way I was just wondering why are some girls so full of themselves? they always think someones "stalking" them. Its something like this, "That guy is so creepy. I told him what color bra I'm wearing and he got every weird and creepy. Oh my god creepy." "Oh my god, he's such a stalker. I told him to call me Saturday and maybe we'll do something. I said 'maybe,' Charlotte, MAYBE. Jesus. CAN'T HE TAKE A HINT? WHY DOES HE KEEP CALLING ME?" "Oh my god, ya know that Jensen guy? Like.. what a stalker. Like.. I don't like.. like him.. but he keeps calling me. Ugh. Right? And I keep answering it. And I keep going to his home and having sex with him. Oh my god, and he asked me to marry him and I said yes. Like.. seriously.. Ugh. So creepy. And we like.. got married and moved in together and now like.. he's always coming over to my home and like.. sleeping in my bed.. ew it's so gross. And we had kids and he's always trying to be around them and like.. take them places.. I think the only reason he pretends to like our kids is to be around me.. uh." what the hell

10 Mar 2010, 2:32 am | click here to view more

Open Question: Help finding music..............?

I hear to music when i go to bed and was looking for some nice material to receive me into the mood of snooze. I normally hear to soft slow music while I am on my computer or reading just before bed to receive me into the mood of sleeping. I was looking for classical music to hear to. I want something that is slow peaceful with a low range. If anyone has any suggestion I would be very grateful.

10 Mar 2010, 2:32 am | click here to view more

Open Question: My legs itch every night but not during the day?

everytime its bedtime my legs start to itch but they wont itch at every during the day, stomach and arms will itch a little too, however my legs are what i will wake up to scratching/bleeding/raw its not bed bugs and i snooze with pants on so it cant be my bed, i also dont have a rash just fingernail damage on my legs, i tried running hot water on my legs followed by a body lotion but i still wake up a couple times in the night needing to reapply more lotion to my legs to certain itchy spots, i did have a body rash when i was in middle school about 15 years ago that i was treated for, maybe that has something to do with it, but i dont have the red rash now just the itching and scratching

10 Mar 2010, 2:31 am | click here to view more

Open Question: about to lose my virginity but couldn't get it up because of alcohol, help please.?

I was at my mates home party and I got on really well with this girl and one thing led to anouther and before we knew it we were in bed making out.. we had great foreplay and passions were high but I just couldn't receive it up after half an hour.. I did have alot to drink so I don't know if that was the reason but it's knocked my confidence now and my mates having anouther home party soon any advice like

10 Mar 2010, 2:22 am | click here to view more

Open Question: Any helpful alternatives that I can do myself to not crack my back?

The source of my back pain comes from my bed. No, I do not want to receive a new bed. It just happens occasionally. So, right when I wake up, I can't help it to twist my back left and right.

10 Mar 2010, 2:21 am | click here to view more

Open Question: My cat has suddenly decided that urinating on the bed is a good idea.?

He did that originally on my bed, and we kicked him off the bed, not letting him on it for a few weeks. Now he's doing it to the other bed. We went out of town this time around and it seems to be tied to that, maybe. He's fixed so he can't be doing it for those reasons, I don't think... Any ideas why he might be doing this and what I can do to keep him from doing it anymore?

10 Mar 2010, 2:21 am | click here to view more

Open Question: Why would my ex contact me completely out of the blue after 6 months of ignoring me?

What should I do? He ignored me on Thanksgiving, Christmas, New Years, Valentines, His 18th Birthday, and My Birthday!!...and now he's contacting me completely out of the blue 6 months later? I dont want to go back to square one. Basically he cheated on me and "moved on" without the person he cheated on me with....and he never looked back....completely ignoring me with no regard for hurting my feelings. Callous! It really hurts knowing the person you fell in adore with is having sex 3 times a day, and "sleeping" every night in the same bed with his new "significant other" for the last 6 months! He threw me away like a disposable tissue. Should I totally ignore him now....forever? I'm not just going to pretend Im glad with his behavior and everything is peaches and cream. What he did was horrible. I wrote this 10-page email when every this s*** went down which basically tells him exactly why he's a greedy jerk, with specific examples of his behavior. It's not a friendly letter. I promised I would send this letter if he ever contacted me again. It tells him off in DETAIL exactly how he's a jerk. But i think that letter might backfire, by showing him that i still care and that he still has every that power over me... and how hes hurt me. But it's TRUE. So should I just ignore him? Should I continue to leave his voicemails unanswered? I mean he ignored me for 6 months while he was bangin his new squeeze. I could have been dead for every he cared. Should I send the letter? And why is he contacting me after 6 months of no contact? He knew i fell in adore with him and still treated me that way. We had an age-gap relationship where i was his "sugar daddy" so-to-talk. I felt used for my money, and I think he never really loved me, just my money. But if that were true, he would have never left the money in the first place. He had everything and he still left. He's been diagnosed as Bipolar-1, and is not taking his meds or going to therapy.... but I don't think that has anything to do with it. He can be the "perfect" boyfriend to his new squeeze for 6 months and counting, so if he wants to be nice, he can be. Dont i have every right to be pissed, and let him know about it? Even if it has been more than 6 months? Your thoughts... Back in December he wanted to borrow money from me because he "bought Christmas presents" for his new squeeze. Can you beleive the nerve! He didnt even bother to buy me a Christmas gift, but wanted to borrow money from me because he was every tapped out of cash from buying OTHER people presents.

10 Mar 2010, 2:15 am | click here to view more

Open Question: how iran people sleep?

traditionally iran people will snooze on bed or floor. this is part of my assessment, please define clear way! thanks

10 Mar 2010, 2:07 am | click here to view more

Open Question: Good exercise plan for a student?

My free time in a school week is about 2 hours from when i receive back from school and when i have to go to bed (excluding homework and mealtimes). So what are some good exercises I can do to loose some fat in that little bit of time? I have a treadmill, exercise bike and two weights I can lift. Thanks.

10 Mar 2010, 2:06 am | click here to view more

Open Question: Abortion... More an essay. But how did you get through it?

Ok, so I'm 16. I fell pregnant in November and I didn't know who to talk to it about, i only realized i could be pregnant mid December. I felt alone and scared about what was going to happen, i had told my best pal about it but she didn't like to discuss with me about an abortion because she didn't feel it was right (bad pal behavior yes.) I wanted to have a pregnancy test but going getting one my self i felt ashamed. me and my best pal were meant to be going to Parallel (a group associated with the NHS) to receive a pregnancy test, but each time she said she would arrive, she would always bail on me with some lame excuse. However I told another pal who had been with me before, that time it was negative though. Me and her went and this time it was positive. I had to go back the week after, so me and her went again, and I had to call a number. The abortion clinic was quite far from home and quite difficult to receive to, and i couldn't go with just a pal, i needed someone who could steer. I would never have told my mum, for i was scared of her reaction. when I was 15 weeks gone, and starting to show, I managed to tell my brothers girlfriend who could steer, and we called the number and arranged an appointment, we went and I had a scan, by then I was 16 and a half weeks gone. They then arranged another appointment the week after for me to have my abortion. The night before I was sat at my PC and my mum came into the room, asking me when was my last period. I began to panic abit and just replied with 'I don't know'.. She then sat down besides me asking me 'is there something you're not telling me?' She wasn't mean about it though, she was very calm. But yet I replied with 'I don't know what you're talking about'. A few minutes later I went up to my room, and listened to my iPod. She then came up and lay beside me saying to me 'You can tell me anything you know'. I didn't answer but she knew anyway so there was no point in me denying it. She asked me how far gone I was and I began to sob, but I tried not to show it because I always act so strong. We was then talking about it for about 20-30minutes. She was really supportive. *I'm even crying as I type this* She asked if I wanted her to go with me but I said no, just my brothers girlfriend. I felt bad, I felt like I was telling her I didn't need her, when I did. She packed me some things and went to bed. I didn't snooze that night, I was too scared about what was going to happen. I got there and then they called my name, I was so scared. They took me into a room with bed like chairs, and then made me take some pills. I wasn't sure if I really wanted to though. 3 hours passed and I got took into the room where they do it. They lay me on seat and I started working up a sweat. I was petrified, and then I saw him stick a needle in my hand and that's every I remember. I came back round, got sat down, had a drink of water and I had to run to the toilets to be sick. This happened twice but the 2nd time I didn't quite make it to the toilets -haha. Also my mum had arrive to the centre, she said she 'didn't want to be too far away'. Anyway, Today it has been 2 weeks. and I'm still crying over it and wondering if I shouldn't have done it. and it is killing me - it was worse in the 1st week though. I just receive into those moods where everything p*sses me off, and I sob over nothing. and when I receive upset I think about that, and what may have been in the future. I wasn't in a relationship with the guy whose baby it was, and we hardly even talked. He is now with a good pal of mine anyway. I don't think I will receive over this for a long time, I've also tried committing suicide before, but obviously, that failed. I know suicide isn't the answer it's just stupid, but sometime I just feel like I want to receive away from every the hurt, for good. I was just wondering if anyone else had felt like this, and how they got through it? Thank you for spending your time reading this, and sorry for wasting your time. for that douche there. I wouldn't have been able to give it up for adoption. because i wouldn't be able to give away my possess child. but i wouldn't be able to bring it up, without a dad. i'm too young for a child. oh and if you're just guna be dicks about it, fuck off. can't be arsed with dicks like you. my decision.

10 Mar 2010, 1:59 am | click here to view more

Open Question: History Essay about Revolutions?

I'm doing an essay tomorrow on Revolutions and i need help on what topic i should chose. 1.) Discuss the idea of revolutions are the spontaneous uprising among the oppressed. 2,) Fidel Castro's quote on "revolution is not a bed of roses..." and 3.) Evaluate the 5 major characteristics of revolutions. Could please explain on each question in depth please.

10 Mar 2010, 1:58 am | click here to view more

Open Question: I am 63 yrs old widow for 7 yrs, met a 67 man who has a gf for 10 yrs.we met through chatting.?

after a month we met in person, we had sex, after several months i visited him and stayed 1 week with him, in other word we were been seeing for 3 times in different months. i fall in adore with him, but he explained to me that he cannot live or adore me because of his girl pal ( they are not living in one roof) , he told me that i am good in bed, when i was with him, he took care of me he stayed with me in the hotel, but when i came back home and called him or sent him messages he didnt bother to rerturn my calls nor answer my messages. Does he loves me or he just using me? please i need advices..I adore him so much, and hoping that he will learn to adore me someday.

10 Mar 2010, 1:56 am | click here to view more

Open Question: is this possibly separation anxiety?

Im worried I may have separation anxiety, along with a (what seems to be) rare combination of social,general, separation anxieties along with depression. The separation anxiety is with my mom, I am 18 (which I head is too old to have separation anxiety?) and i hate staying the night at places that arent my home, miss her alot, always have to say goodnight and i adore you to her before bed and hug her, sometimes i miss her even when shes down the hall, feel sadness FOR her, feel guilty, think of her when Im out and about and feel unhappy. worry alot about how im going to receive home to look her/be home. Ive had it since i was little, probably from my parents divorce and the instablity surrounding it, as well as always wanting to go be with her and being refused the abilitiy to and missing her alot. is this normal? and do others have a combo of these anxieties?

10 Mar 2010, 1:56 am | click here to view more

Open Question: Why do people change in after marriage?

like when you marry ur spouse is supposed to be like your bff so you will feel comfortable with doing just about anything like dancing...joking around, wearing sexy clothes in the bed room excetra...excetra...instead people change and become boring or dont do fun things anymore. Like ex: me and my husband I never really danced for him or sing with him or of those things even b4 we got married but when im with my friends and family im a COMPLETE different person according to my husband...but actually the person i have always been im exciting and fun to be around...people really like my company bc im so lively and silly. Why is it so difficult for me not to do it around my husband? and no hes not as silly as me but its so difficult to be that free spirited person around em.

10 Mar 2010, 1:53 am | click here to view more

Open Question: my girlfriend is in another city sleeping over a guys house. should i be worried?

The only time i met him was in his home city. He seemed to like her alot and she barely talked to me that night. Also she didnt pick up my calls tonight and she called me back really tardy saying shes staying there the night and acted pretty weird. No affection on the phone. Is she sleeping in his bed? Should i call her and cease worring, go to bed and not care?

10 Mar 2010, 1:51 am | click here to view more

Open Question: Living with my ex and need advice....?

So me and my boyfriend broke up about a month ago and I went away for four days to arrive back and look him on top of a girl in our bed that we snooze in.... he excuse is that its cause i left on spring break without telling he so he figured I was out with some guy.... I packed my things and put them in my car due to frustration at the fact he would disrespect me like that, but I really don't have anywhere to go and neither does he? So what should I do? I'm just really confused right now and things are more complicated than they should be.....

10 Mar 2010, 1:51 am | click here to view more